Many women found the love of their life through online dating. The number of foreign women who married men overseas is tremendously increasing. For these women, their lives had totally changed when they were brought by their husbands in a foreign country. Their experiences may vary and it could be positive or negative depending on the kind of men that they had met online.
It would probably be good that they will take time in knowing each other more since this is a long distance relationship prior to making a serious commitment like marriage. Any couple need to consider that reality will only set in when they live together as husband and wife and there are may be lots of challenges and difficulties when you marry anyone who come from a different culture, tradition and beliefs. Although this will always depend upon the couple on how they will strengthen their relationship to make it last.
Difficulty: Moderate
Instructions
What you'll need:
Love, respect and commitment
1. Consider how lonely your foreign wife in a foreign land away from her family and friends so try to provide her a computer or laptop with an internet connection and headset so that she can communicate to the people important to her whom she had left behind. Always bear in mind that she had left these people because of you so try to consider this.
2. Respect the country that she was born into, her beliefs and culture. Never try to put her down when you talk about her country and the things that she values and believes in.
Some men are only good when they were still dating these foreign women online but by the time they will bring them to their country and married them, that's the time that they will talk openly against them.
Not all foreign husbands do this and hopefully the number of abused foreign wives had decreased. There are also men who are true to their promises to the women that they had met online and all they want is to have a wife and family.
3. Never ignore your foreign wife when she is talking. Sometimes it takes patience to be with her because she has difficulty in understanding your language.
She may have tremendous difficulty especially if you will talk a bit faster because this is what you're used to. Try to give her ample time to learn the language or better yet, enroll her to a language class so that she can understand more of her second language.
4. Be considerate, loving and committed in doing whatever is necessary to fix any problem within your married life. In this way, your foreign wife may not feel the tension that she is already experiencing from all of the things that she needed to adjust.
5. Support her financially without making her feel guilty that she has not contributed anything for the bills and the everyday needs for the household.
Not all but many of the foreign wives had left or resigned from their jobs when they decided to marry their husbands who live abroad so give them a chance to adjust more, encourage them to prepare themselves for work and take good care of them because they see their foreign husbands as the only people who can truly understand their present situation.
6. Respect your foreign wife even if she can't speak your language clearly. She is still your wife no matter what and she can still sense if you truly love her when you treat her with respect. It's always true that with respect comes love and if your intentions are pure then your foreign wife will love you even more.
7. Be true to your promise when you were still dating online that you will love her with all your heart and cater to her needs as her foreign husband. Avoid shouting at her when your angry.
There will be times that you will get upset, this can happen in any relationship but try to make a good effort to change so that you can have a lasting relationship with your foreign wife whom you had met online. Indeed, foreign wives are not that good all the time, they are still human beings who will commit mistakes but the sacrifice of leaving their loved ones and own country is also not at all easy for them so patience and understanding will absolutely make two people get more closer and ultimately have a committed and loving relationship.
